This is more of a PSA, I can confirm the eSIM works fine on my pixel 3 xl
so what ever they tell you its a "Apple" only thing, its false, both phones use the same eSIM
enjoy the new possibilities
So how do I get eSim for my Pixel 3XL?
The activation of the eSIM must be done in a corporate Fido store. You can get more information on this thread.
You go to the store and ask for one